Monday, March 09, 2009
When one is younger, the guy or girl will shun the person he/she likes out of embarrassment but when one is OLDer... It means a totally different thing. It means the person is not interested and not keen. If someone says that I like her when I have been ignoring her then I will only say she is in delusion or the EQ level is not high enough.
What I look for in a girl is maturity in thoughts and emotions. Not need high EQ but moderate EQ at least. I look for a connection in communication so if I DO NOT even bother to communicate, it will mean I do not want to take it to the next stage. No offence to anyone. I have been treated by some girls in such a manner so I get the point.
Just that point in my life when I am thinking about life partner and certain such thoughts. I have not been actively searching. Even when I have made friends, I am not even sure I would fall in love with any despite the fact that they are nice girls. When I feel 'crush' for some girls, it dies away all too quickly...
I realise sometimes the guy falls in 'love' with girls who are aching and in pain. The guy comes in to comfort her and the connectivity is built. However, is it because the guy will feel important and that she needs him then he feels this way? Or is it really that he cares for her? Or is it for sympathy? Then waiting in patience for her to be ready, can he truly wait? What if she is well enough or when she is not and someone else comes along to take her away? Would all the waiting be in vain? What is one's response and what should it be?
Many questions but there may not be a perfect answer nor any answer at all. Each case may be different. Each case may apply a different set of 'rules'. I guess it all boils down to choices. Even if the guy waits for the girl and eventually she runs off with another guy. Then so be it. It has to be this case and it is just a journey for the guy though I am sure he will be sad if she meant something to him. Life's journey is abstract and different for different people. Each one's journey must be walked by oneself with the leading of God.
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