Sunday, March 08, 2009
问世间情为何物
That was a question I started asking myself since primary school. Weird as it may seem but it was a question that stemmed from many things that surfaced. I had my 1st crush in P2. She had looks and was smart. Liked her till P5 when I was streamed into another class. Then liked another girl, who had looks but not that smart. She was just tall! I was just compelled by looks. In P6, I was also aware of the 1st gal that liked me. She wasnt that bad looking but I did not like her. Those girls I liked didnt like me. What is love then?
Even as I grew up, I was slapped by my mum, punished by my mum... Scolded at times unreasonably by dad. Caned by mum. Slapped in face by mum. I questioned myself once more what is love?
When I had my 1st few relationships in sec sch and JC, I was hurt and devasted by some of the girls I was together with. Due to certain circumstances, we broke up. Sometimes, I felt used, rejected and hurt. What then is love? Is it just a fleeting feeling?
Then I knew God in P3. I was taught of God's love, which is the purest form of love. Then I formulated my own formula after hearing various preachers and their sermons.
Love is not just a fleeting feeling that makes the heart flutter. LOVE IS COMMITMENT! It is to commit and decide to love despite certain circumstances and situations that may arise. It is not just that fluttery feeling. Love is spelled TIME (quality time for girls; they don't need you to say much at times, just be there). Love is the opposite of LUST. Love is in its purest form in the AGAPE: self sscrificial love. It serves to give and fulfill the one you love but lust takes and seeks to gratify oneself.
The love we seek in life cannot be easily found and given until we are filled with the love of God. Else, the love we give can be limited or swing towards lust. Lust can be very subtle and it will destroy any relationships. Love is indeed patient, kind and long suffering...
Even now, I am still searching and continually finding out what love is as I live it out rather than know it in theory. To my parents, friends, class, cca pupils.... NO GF YET! NO GF YET! STOP BUGGING ME, PPLE! Hahaha.... BIG DISCLAIMER!
What Kind of Girl Will You Fall For? | |
 | You will fall for the cutie. You like girls with a personality. She's got to have a nice smile and a sense of humor. Although she doesn't have to be a model, she has to be that girl-next-door. |
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