1. Male are male and female are female. FULL STOP! People state genes as a likely possibility. Then this poses the question- does a male dog hump another male dog? Or for that matter, any male animal go after another male? We are worse than animals then!
2. Religiously, it is not accepted. Muslims & Christianity states that there should be no unhealthy relationships between people of the same gender. Ying & Yang - there might be unbalance but it can be sorted out. There is no need to just say that I am a mixture of both.

Most people are both man and woman to begin with. What do I mean? Any person has a heart and a mind. It is the world's view that man should be tough and not show hints of emotions. When guys do that, it is a sign of weakness. This may have been the driving force to show that these guys are gals to begin with. Likewise for the opposite gender. Guys can and should show emotions. Health includes physical, emotional, psychological and more. Guys need to know they have an emotional side in them, just that different individuals have it differently.

People just want to justify what they are doing. Just like what the bible says, many will choose to listen what they want to hear for it is pleasing to their ears. They do not wish to pursue the truth for it is difficult. Think about it. The present generation is becoming this way.

GUYS SHOULD STAY AS GUYS AND GALS AS GALS. Do not mess up theLAW of NATURE or the LAW of GOD!

1. Students are getting less resilient, over-reliant on others and are unwilling to try. Especially in FMSS. Students are so forgetful. Some can forget about coming to Examination! Oh my goodness... Why they cannot even remember they have examination. They have entry proof, friends and they do not make sure they have checked thoroughly. I think this is a generation that takes things too lightly and do not take into account of their own actions. I remembered I had to make sure I checked my examination dates the night before, the time it started and I do call my friends to meet them earlier, on top of confirming the time. I am not promoting to be paranoid la!! Just careful and prudent. Also, students just do not turn up for CCA when they think they have no chance to represent the school. They rather not fight for their place and they rather quit. When I was a student, my aim was to work harder to prove my coach wrong! Have we produced a generation that gives up when the going gets tough? Is it a trend? I feel so. Life has been too plain sailing and smooth for many that they do not see the need to face failures.
2. Another aspect of view that I have spent thinking about was about relationships. What makes a couple? Is it just 2 lonly hearts coming together? Absolutely not! I think that a couple can only come together when they have accquired a level of maturity. Many lack the maturity and end up hurting one another. I am not against getting together but do not do so for the sake of doing so! Just need to know that a relationship when handled well, can bring much good out of it, even through a breakup. I also think when there is a relationship, it would be good to have mentors to guide through with you, the many issues you have to face.

Been super busy agan despite the fact that it's the holidays for the students. I have countless things to plan and think about. I have to prepare to lead youth camps, prepare for my volleyball camp, do up contracts for my coaches, catch hold of CCA absentees, prepare my teams for matches, be in charge of running O levels for my school... Just a few things I have to manage. But in the midst, I know that God is good!

I faced many situations that I was unhappy about but I know that if God is for me, who can be against me? All I know is that I do not need to justify myself and just keep growing. Well, I need to meet students soon, to make them write reflections for skipping training!

Catcha, my lovely blog!