1. Loving with the Heart
2. Loving with the Mind

Loving with the heart is easy. When you love someone, it is so easy to do things for someone. However, one must be aware that one is not manipulative. This can happen ever so easily. Guys, in particular, always can be heard saying, if you love me, you should allow me to +#$% (pardon me for the censorship). It is obvious what these matters may be. Love is not selfish and love is not manipulative. Even those of good intentions are sometimes musked with deeper motives that the individual is not aware of unless he/she spends time to reflect through.

On loving with the mind, it can be regardless of how one feels. How is this so? In the Bible, it says to love your enemies. How can one love your enemies or even your enemy? HOW? It is evident that it does not come with emotions attached initially. It is made out of choice. Eventually, the heart will follow up with your head on this matter.

In life, many things are about choices. You make your own choice how you feel. You cannot control others or how they react. You can only manage your end. Be miserable or be happy, it's actually your choice, not others! Do not put the blame on others too easily...!